i have realise that there is a lot of people nowadays seeking for a relationship. I personally think that being in a relationship is not wrong and it is not like it is illegal but think about it, how many times are you going to give your heart away for short term relationship? will you have any left for your husband? If you don't know, the bible has the guide to true love. It teaches us to grow in knowledge and make God'd words your guide. As i do, my love gets smarter!

So what is love?

1John 4:10 - 11:

This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us we ought to love one another.

I want a relationships with the opposite sex no longer be about 'having good time' or learning 'what i want in a relationship but more about giving. to lay down our desires and do what is in his best interest. to care for the person even when there is nothing in it for us. To want to keep that person's purity and holiness because it pleases God and protect him or her.