i have realise that there is a lot of people nowadays seeking for a relationship. I personally think that being in a relationship is not wrong and it is not like it is illegal but think about it, how many times are you going to give your heart away for short term relationship? will you have any left for your husband? If you don't know, the bible has the guide to true love. It teaches us to grow in knowledge and make God'd words your guide. As i do, my love gets smarter!

So what is love?

1John 4:10 - 11:

This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God loved us we ought to love one another.

I want a relationships with the opposite sex no longer be about 'having good time' or learning 'what i want in a relationship but more about giving. to lay down our desires and do what is in his best interest. to care for the person even when there is nothing in it for us. To want to keep that person's purity and holiness because it pleases God and protect him or her.

Hi. Royce here. i bet all you know i am. I first official post! Today i observe something. A lot people are always sad, always bringing the unhappiness with them. I mean is nothing wrong to be sad but it is not healthy. When you are sad and brings it everywhere you go, people around can feel it. If you are sad, you got scolded or your day wasn't happy at work or in school, think about it. Reflect and think what can you do in order to make things right. Ponder about it, talk to someone who understands you. Pour emotions out. Its okay. Then after you have talk about leave it behind. Don't take that unhappiness with you. Be optimistic. For me, i talk to God.

i have a few things for the last 16 years of my life, in order to be happy:

First, GET a LIFE. For instance, do gym, get a hobby to do. By the way computer and staring at facebook is not a hobby. that include sleeping

Second, Everyday spend 30 mins think about all the happy things that happen on that day itself. For example, you saw the girl you like and she is cute. hahas

Third, talk happy. Do force yourself to be happy at times.

Forth, observe. Observe how you feel at different times of the day. If you are sad, tell yourself that you are a happy person, people love you.

Fifth, don't have too much promises. If you promise something. Do it. If you cant dont promise. Simple as that!

Remember guys, happy people attract people. No one can disturb your happiness except for yourself. Choose your happiness today! JOY comes within the heart. Decide now.

The next time i am going to talk more about me.

Tomorrow is O level chinese. All i have got is some knowledge about chinese. I now know something. chinese isn't THAT hard. i just need some patience and there i go. I guess it's too late. TOMORROW is O level. I have planned not retake though. I have faith that no matter what happen tomorrow God will help me. I shall PASS my chinese... at least for once.

AMEN!